LGBTQ Therapist
Individual & Couples Counselling
For most people within the LGBTQ2S+ community, regardless of how you identify, you have likely encountered a range of problems or stressors, as this is common for our community – even in Ontario. Regardless of whether your stress relates to your family life, intimate relationship, workplace, friendships, sexuality, or society in general, know you are not alone. While I can likely relate to some of your stressors, I promise your counselling will be LGBTQ2S+ affirming, with a LGBTQ Therapist which will help you live and accept the most authentic version of yourself.
How I can help
Individual Counselling
and Get support from a counsellor that understands you.
If you identify as LGTBQIA2S+ – an acronym for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer and/or Questioning, Intersex, Asexual, Two-Spirit – or are unsure about your sexual orientation or gender identity, you can feel safe around me to express yourself.
In counselling, exploring your life is only possible with someone who values your diversity and identity, including sexuality and gender expression, which can vary in every one of us. Generally speaking, therapeutic treatment related to sexual orientation is likely to include:
- Exploring your specific and unique history and experience of being LGBTQ2S+
- Exploring positive changes to your life
- Exploring and processing emotions and beliefs
- Exploring wishes and challenges related to having healthy relationships
- Exploring challenges related to your intimate relationship or sex life
- Exploring and discovering of your own internal strengths to make living life easier
I will help you understand your issue better, which helps for making the type of change that is going to help you move forward. I listen, ask lots of challenging questions and prompt your strengths to get working for you. I will work with you to help you better understand your thoughts, feelings and emotions. Our sessions together will be confidential, non-judgemental, and unbiased, as this allows for open and healthy communication together.
Get support from a LGBTQS therapist who understands you and offers gay counselling, lesbian counselling, and bisexual counselling to our community.
The Starting Point
Regardless if you are out, or not comfortable with coming out, questioning, having relationship stress, or dealing with sex or sexuality issues, I can help you address your problems in a way that will bring new insight and create long-lasting changes.
Some referral issues include:
- The coming out process
- Discrimination and oppression
- Workplace/school stressors
- Relationships and marriage
- Family stressors and mental health
- Sex/Sexuality
- HIV related issues
- Self-esteem/self-acceptance
- Trans related issues
Getting Started
I can help you make sense of it all and to develop a plan to make long-lasting change, one step at a time. Schedule a 15-minute consultation with me is the starting point to making the type of change you are ready for. Get support from a counsellor who understands you and what you are going through!
How I can help
Gay and Lesbian
Couples Counselling
ssIn couples counselling, issues related to your intimate relationship are explored in an inclusive and affirming space, comfortable for sharing experiences and challenges. Too many couples go years without seeking professional help thinking they can just figure it out on their own. This often leads to stagnation, avoidance, poor communication, and increased tension or even hostility.
Reasons to seek counselling:
- To be successful in your relationship
- For your well-being or for your partner’s well-being
- To regain respect, love and stability
- To decrease conflict
- To avoid drifting-apart
- Because your relationship is an investment and worth fighting for!
Consider:
- Most conflict is a matter of misunderstanding and poor communication
- It is never too late to seek help and support
- Counselling is an effective way to sort out issues and improve communication
- Separation/divorce is often a costly and unfriendly process
Most couples wait far too long to seek help. The most positive relationship outcomes are found when couples reach out for help sooner than later. Get support from a gay counsellor that understands gay, lesbian, and bisexual relationships.ï¾
The Starting Point
Types of issues LGBTQ2S+ clients seek couples counselling:
- Relationships and marriage stressors
- Communication stressors
- Family stressors
- Sex/Sexuality issues
- HIV related issues
I will work with you to help you better understand your problems, your own feelings and those of your partner.
Together, I will provide you with tools and strategies to navigate your stressors together. The goal for many couples is to help develop a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. Your sessions will be confidential, non-judgemental, and unbiased, which allows for open and healthy communication together, without fear of being judged.
While many couples come to counselling ready to get to work, there’s understandably a good deal of apprehension around getting started with couples counselling. Often one partner is more comfortable with the idea than the other, and that is perfectly normal. The biggest challenge is making the first session happen.
FAQ
What will the first counselling session be like?
To reduce stress, come with an open mind and bring your questions and worries to the first meeting.
Be open to doing some work together–that’s the best way to navigate the process during the first session. Some clients prefer to write down a few notes before the session, others have their talking points in their head and come ready to discuss things.
During the first session, I will confirm a few things related to confidentiality and get your informed consent to proceed. I will always ask if the session is staying on the topic you were hoping to discuss. At the end of the session, together, we will decide next steps. As the session wraps-up, you may want to jot down a few notes.
How many counselling sessions are needed?
Of course, this is impossible to answer, but there are a few principles I follow that may help bring clarity to that question:
- Getting right to work: In any counselling you want to get right to work. It’s important to address the issues of concern and set a goal in the first session, as this guides future sessions
- A short-term/brief framework is often used to guide individual counselling. Some clients need fewer sessions (4 to 8), while others need more sessions. Some clients prefer to develop a long-term counselling relationship. There is no pressure to commit to a certain number of sessions, or the frequency of the sessions.
What to expect from counselling
The best form of individual counselling is that which addresses and respects your emotions, needs, desires, and personality. I make it a point to take the time to respect each of these areas when working with clients, as this helps to better understand all the issues impacting you to be effectively laid out and addressed. Through careful consideration, curiosity and open dialogue, together, we can identify a newfound way of thinking about, understanding and improving your situation.
I respect that you know your own mind and life better than anyone else, and consider this a benefit and an opportunity to help you move forward, through encouraging the consideration of your emotions and from your own perspective.Â
Your values will be explored, to see if you are living according to them, or contrary to them. Your strengths and weaknesses will also be explored – a lot! I will tap into your wisdom, sometimes even when you don’t believe it exists, and help you set small, achievable goals to work towards. We will identify potential obstacles to your goals and develop plans to address them. Your progress will be reviewed and adjustments will be made to keep you moving forward towards long-lasting change.Â
Typically, counselling is about stages. The first stage, exploration, involves helping clients examine their thoughts and feelings. The second stage, insight, helps clients understand the reasons for these thoughts and feelings. The third stage, action, involves the client making changes.
What is your counselling session rate?
The fee for an individual counselling session is $125.00 and sessions typically run around 50 minutes in length. Couples counselling session is $150.00. Session fees are due the day the session takes place and payment can be made by cash, e-transfer or credit car. A receipt will be provided.
How does counselling work?
Counselling allows for self-discovery, better self-acceptance and the development of a sense of contentment, which fosters unprecedented growth from within. It will encourage hope, optimism and bolster self-confidence. Typically, counselling fosters new insight, which increases the ability to openly communicate with newfound respect for others and openly work through issues with more motivation and ownership. Counselling for depression can help you tap into a new you!
A client may attend individual counselling for as few as three or six sessions, or as long as several years, depending on the goals for therapy. I can help improve how you feel about yourself with issues related to managing:Â
- Depression
- AnxietyÂ
- Other mental health conditionsÂ
- Relationship stressÂ
- Separation/divorce
- Emotional regulation (anger, impulse and reactivity)
- Interpersonal stressors
- Employment/school stressors
- LGBTQ2S+ matters
- Gender identity
- Gender transition
- Sexuality
- Trauma
- Grief and loss
- Gender-based abuse
- Alcohol or drug addiction/misuse
I can help you make sense of it all and to develop a plan to make long-lasting change, one step at a time.Â
Some clients bring notes of what they want to talk about, others are mentally prepared and don’t need any prompts. Asking questions in your consultation is one way to confirm what will help you get ready for your first session.
What to expect from the first couples counselling session
To take some of the pressure off, bring an open mind, but also your questions and concerns to that first session. Be open to doing some work together–that’s the best way to learn how the couples therapist works and this will allow you to get a sense of whether I’m the right fit for both of you.
A client may attend individual counselling for as few as three or six sessions, or as long as several years, depending on the goals for therapy. I can help improve how you feel about yourself with issues related to managing:Â
- Depression
- AnxietyÂ
- Other mental health conditionsÂ
- Relationship stressÂ
- Separation/divorce
- Emotional regulation (anger, impulse and reactivity)
- Interpersonal stressors
- Employment/school stressors
- LGBTQ2S+ matters
- Gender identity
- Gender transition
- Sexuality
- Trauma
- Grief and loss
- Gender-based abuse
- Alcohol or drug addiction/misuse
I can help you make sense of it all and to develop a plan to make long-lasting change, one step at a time.Â
Some clients bring notes of what they want to talk about, others are mentally prepared and don’t need any prompts. Asking questions in your consultation is one way to confirm what will help you get ready for your first session.
How couples counselling works?
I will provide practical strategies to help you understand the positive and negative dynamics of your relationship and how to build a healthier connection together. I will provide you with new insight to better understand and manage your emotions, and your partner’s emotions. You will be better able to express your thoughts and feelings in a respectful and productive way.
Explore
Individual Counselling
Typically, counselling sheds new insight, which increases the ability to openly communicate with a newfound respect for others and openly work through issues with more motivation and ownership. Counselling can help you tap into a new you. Get support from a counsellor who understands you.
How it works
Counselling is about stages. The first stage, exploration, involves helping clients examine their thoughts and feelings. The second stage, insight, helps clients understand the reasons for these thoughts and feelings. The third stage, action, involves the client making changes. It’s really important for clients to set the right goals, in order for the change process to be successful.
About me
Counselling is a collaborative process in which I will help you create goals and to create or develop new coping strategies to help you to achieve long-lasting change and personal growth. I provide a safe space for clients to share openly, and to reflect, and in response, I meet them where they are at, in a non-judgmental way. Get support from a counsellor who understands you.